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Alan
Bodnar, Ph.D. is the Co-Director of Psychology Training at Westborough
State Hospital, Mass. and a consultant in the field of leadership
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By Alan Bodnar, Ph.D.
Lately, our Poetry and Fiction group has been sputtering. Our numbers
have declined to a few regulars and newcomers to the hospital, sampling
the fare before finalizing their schedules. We also have the occasional
drop-in, there because he missed the bus for the mall trip that
is part of the hospital's community exposure program. All in all,
it did not seem like the right time to introduce William Shakespeare
to the group and so, when one of our regulars requested the bard,
I was skeptical. However, as advertised, we do take requests and,
from another point of view, who better than Shakespeare to strike
a chord of empathy with the common human struggles that become so
much harder when you face them with mental illness?
Also, because there is nothing that Shakespeare has not treated
in his plays or sonnets, it would be easy enough to select a memorable
passage, appropriate to the audience and short enough to be clarified,
discussed and applied to real life situations, all in the space
of a 45-minute group session. My co-leader and I decided to focus
on those passages that many of us were expected to memorize in
high school English classes. "To be or not to be," Hamlet's famous
soliloquy on the merits and risks of suicide, was certainly relevant
to more than one group member, but maybe not the easiest place to
start.
Perhaps Macbeth's exercise in reality testing would make a valuable
point about relapse prevention. "Is this a dagger which I see before
me…? / ...or art thou but / A dagger of the mind, a false creation,
/ Proceeding from the heat-oppressed brain?" On the face of it,
you couldn't ask for a better example of the way we encourage our
patients to evaluate their experiences for early warning signs of
psychosis. Then again, did we really want to make an example of
a man about to commit murder? Of course, if we focused instead on
the anguish and remorse that followed the deed, we might be able
to provide a useful lesson about the importance of considering consequences
as a buffer against impulsive behavior.
Lady Macbeth could help us there with her futile attempts to wash
away her guilt along with the blood of her victim, "Out, damned
spot! out, I say!" Ah, if only Spot, the pet therapy dog, wasn't
visiting with a group of patients in the room across the hall from
us. Just imagining the potential for misunderstanding and the chaos
that would follow was enough to send us looking for another passage.
In the end, we chose Portia's plea for mercy from The Merchant
of Venice "The quality of mercy is not strained." In 14 brief lines,
Shakespeare makes the case for mercy conferring advantages on those
who give and those who receive and ends with a powerful explanation
of how mercy is "mightiest in the mightiest," as it "becomes the
throned monarch better than his crown." Spike (not his real name),
the first group member to respond, associated it to one of his favorite
games involving the application of intense pressure to the body
of your opponent until he says, "Mercy." Maybe it wasn't exactly
what we had in mind, but all therapy begins by meeting people where
they are and, if the bard is truly universal, he surely has something
to say to Spike.
The rest of the group needed little encouragement before they were
talking about times in which they needed mercy from others as well
as times when they were in a position to show mercy. A few had
fallen under the spell of a relapsing loan shark, borrowing a dollar
or two for cigarettes or snacks from the vending machines and then
being expected to repay the loan with one-hundred percent interest
compounded weekly.
Very little has changed in the 400 years since Shakespeare wrote
about a Venice where Portia pleads for mercy from another loan shark
intent on exacting a pound of flesh for his services. As expected,
there was no one in the room who would not want mercy from their
own financial or moral creditors. There was also a universal sentiment
in favor of showing mercy to those who have brought inconvenience
and disappointment into our lives. Focusing on prevention, we might
have brought Hamlet's Polonius into the conversation, counseling
his son to be "neither a borrower nor a lender." We decided to leave
that soliloquy for another day since an authority figure quoting
hospital policy could easily have been too severe a test of the
group's capacity for trust at this stage of the game.
Try as we may to democratize our dealings with one another, there
is always a power differential in the relationships between staff
and patients. A young woman in the group could imagine herself asking
her treatment team to restore privileges that had been suspended
after she returned late from a pass. We joked about her using Portia's
words about mercy being "above this sceptered sway" and "enthroned
in the hearts of kings." That was more than a month ago and I am
still waiting for the phone call from her unit director. He would
ask if I had anything to do with the speech she made during her
treatment team meeting and whether or not I thought she had gone
too far to suggest that mercy "is an attribute of God himself; /
And earthly power doth then show like God's / When mercy seasons
justice."
"Forsooth," I would reply, "These words are razors to my wounded
heart," and that being said, leave him to draw his own conclusions.
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